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How to get a FREE Babysitter for Date Nights...

The idea is simple-  get your village together.. List all the friends you have that have kids the same age as you.  Then you ask to "babysit swap" kids.   One night you take all the kids- that couple goes out.  Then you switch on another evening or afternoon.   Your kids get a fun night with friends and are entertained..  You have it a tad more difficult- with 4-5 kids in the house.   Plan accordingly...     I chose a theme night- Pokemon party:   the older ones go with my husband Pokemon hunting, I stay with the little's and play Playdoh.  Then Pokemon movie is shown and pizza for dinner.     It's important to send photos (Proof of Life) to the parents quite often.    And make sure your husband is on board with this plan- you need help!   We divide and conquer most of the evening. We sometimes have taken all 4 kids to the local trampoline place--I have a van so we just need the car seats.   We ...

The BEST discipline/parenting book out there..

This book is life changing-  it gave me the EXACT formula (what to say to my 2 year old) when I started to discipline him.    Thank you to my friend Monica for recommending it. Easy read, and USEFUL.  I keep my book close to refer back to it often- I seem to forget some strategies. If you like direct "say this" strategies- this is your book!   I learned its ALL about choice for them-- when you give them a choice to be good/or bad- it's ownership of their actions!    It takes practice and time to SAY what you expect and give them the option.  Hopefully they will chose wisely- if not- you need to discipline.   Amazon Direct Link   Remember-  there is always wine.. -Auggie